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Help I Want A Girlfriend!

Updated on July 21, 2015
Get to Know who she is by spending time together
Get to Know who she is by spending time together

Girlfriend Wanted

There are alot of boys out there who are simply too afraid to ask a girl to go out with them. Fear of rejection and humiliation in front of their friends is far too much to endure. This makes a simple conversation an impossible task and a losing battle for any chance of romance. What you need to know is that getting the girl doesn't have to be so difficult. When love is in the air there is nothing more important than being natural. I know easier said than done.

Dating Tips for Guys

The Word No to a boy is like a kick in the teeth and he finds it hard to accept that he has been rejected by the girl of his dreams.

But if you follow my advice hints and tips they will help you get back on track and you will soon be dating that girl that you have always wanted. Take it from me, I know what girls wants from a boy because i was one of those girls.

Perfect Boyfriend and Girlfriend Walking Together
Perfect Boyfriend and Girlfriend Walking Together

Know Your Reasons For Wanting a Girlfriend

First and foremost is for you to want her for all the right reasons. This is not about being cool or impressing your friends. And it is not about getting the hottest girl just because she is pretty. This is about having a real relationship all the great things that come with romancing a special girl. Bottom line is wanting her for who she is and how great you two would be together. Just know that this kind of thinking is one of the biggest turn on for girls.

Get to Know Her

Find some things to talk about. Ideally, you should find a girl who shares some of your interests. Even is she doesn't, sometimes opposites attract. Bottom line is that the "it" factor in love relationships is all about the chemistry. Diversity is an asset in relationships as you will never get bored with each other and you may even learn something new. Whats most important here is that you need to always respect all that she is. Its not important what your friends think of the two of you as a couple. The pursuit of each other is more important than popularity.

Be Confident!

Honestly there isnt anything more important than showing the girl that you are a guy who knows who he is. If your confidence is low now is the time to start to think differently so build it up first. Remember, you are who you are, being fake will only make you crash and burn later. Try enjoying the great loving guy that you are. Romance is yours for the taking and you might just be surprised and see how well others will pick up on this. For sure that girl you want to call your girlfriend will admire that quality.

the best relationships take work
the best relationships take work
2 hearts together
2 hearts together

What Women Want

When you talk to her make sure you look directly into her eyes. Some girls like to playing hard to get just to see how much you really do like them. Like you girls too fear rejection. And so mis-communication may get in the way. This is when it is so important to look deep into her eyes and listen with your heart, for that is the true basis of what women want. It is then you will know if she is the one. This may not be the easiest part of getting a girlfriend as its easy to misinterpret her body language. This complicates matters, as your fear of rejection may take over. And this is where again I stress look into her eyes for the answer. And listen then and only then can you understand her signals of what she wants from you and with you.

Love and Romance involves holding hands and just being together
Love and Romance involves holding hands and just being together

Become Boyfriend Material

Respect is the number one consideration here. In order to become boyfriend material first look at yourself and how you treat people. Are you filling your life with positive activities, and improving yourself as a person. If you’re not great boyfriend material, then girls won’t consider you as a date in the first place and boyfriend status for you will never be a possibility, no matter how many strategies you use to help you know how to get a girlfriend. Respecting a girl is so very important. It is the foundation for any romantic relationship and one of the most important things that girls want and need and most of all deserve.

How To Keep the Relationship Alive

As you can see getting a girlfriend isn’t so hard, and the real hard work comes in keeping one. Relationships take work and if you do the work right the benefits are endless. So always remember that it is important to be a good boyfriend by respecting her and yourself. Make sure you are hearing her by really listening and you will always have good people skills in life. And Its important to always be willing to make sacrifices for the girl that you are with, therefore being e trustworthy person. Your priority should be making your girlfriend happy. When she is happy you will be too and you both will have one great loving relationship.

Red Hearts beating together
Red Hearts beating together

Best Boyfriend Tips

  • Give her a big Tee shirt of yours to sleep in
  • Send her Cute text messages
  • Pay attention to her in front of your friends - a kiss is always a great idea
  • Tell her she looks beautiful
  • Always look into her eyes when you talk to her
  • Let her mess with your hair
  • Just be happy to be with her walk around with her
  • Hold her hand when you're around your friends and in private
  • Let her fall asleep in your arms
  • Come up and grab her by the waist

The Best Boyfriends

Always Always Remember :

  • DO NOT. . I repeat Do Not talk about other girls around her
  • If you love her, others shouldn't matter especially what your friends think.
  • Relationships take work so do your part.
  • If she is sad or upset about something let her know you care and be there for her.
  • She's important to you so make sure you make her feel that way
  • Romance her .. When you fall in love with her, tell her.
  • And last but not least . . Answer her phone calls and text messages no matter what!

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